Good Girl, Goodbye

Meet Your
Good Girl.

The archetype quiz.

You’re just a few minutes away from understanding the scripts and patterns that have been shaping your decisions, relationships, career and sense of self.

Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

You’ll leave with personalised insights to help you rewrite your story.

Free · Takes just a few minutes

Caitlin Judd
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About the book

Your Good Girl has been running the show. It’s time to meet her.

Good Girl, Goodbye introduces 12 archetypes, representing the different ways we’ve learned to earn approval, stay safe and feel like we belong.

Be nice.
Don’t be difficult.
Work harder.
Keep everyone happy.
Don’t ask for too much.
Be grateful.
Smile.
Don’t make a fuss.

Sound familiar? These are some of the scripts many of us learned growing up.

The quiz will reveal the Good Girl that dominates your behaviour so you can recognise the patterns and start to untangle from her.

Because once you can name her, you can choose something different.

Caitlin
Caitlin Judd
About Caitlin

Meet the Author

I’m the author of Good Girl, Goodbye — a book exploring the invisible expectations that shape women’s lives and what it takes to rewrite them.

The 12 Good Girl archetypes in this quiz are based on years of research, interviews and lived experience, and have helped thousands of women recognise patterns they never had words for.

This quiz is your first step.

Reader reactions

What happens when you untangle
from your Good Girl?

Women are picking up this book and feeling seen for the first time.

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“I am LOVING your book Caitlin!!! Thank you for writing this. It is so powerful and so needed.”

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“Devouring it 👏 also your audible voice is brilliant! You should approach KIIS to replace Kyle and Jackie O!”

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“CAN NOT PUT IT DOWN. Healing me in REAL TIME. x”

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“Incredible read — made me cry — thank you 🙏”

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“Oh my goodness it’s like you can read my mind in that book! I had to put it down because I desperately need a highlighter and pencil to annotate everything.”

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“A shopping list of experiences from this year alone have come pouring in. This is great work Caitlin, congratulations.”

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“I just finished listening. It’s so well written, integrating the latest wellbeing science in your own voice too. I enjoyed it so much I think I’ll listen to it again.”

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“I could not put it down. I’m already planning a second read to follow the journal prompts. Incredible book and I’m so excited to embrace going against the good girl.”

Ready to meet your Good Girl?

It only takes a few minutes.
But it might change the way you see yourself forever.

Drumroll please…